Find Yourself – Advice for Traveling After a Divorce

Divorce is a difficult experience to go through. You’ll constantly have flashbacks of the things you and your partner used to do together, and you wonder if you can do it all by yourself. It can be incredibly stressful and challenging, and you may take a while to recover fully. During this time, one good thing that you can do for yourself is to find quiet time away from the familiar faces you’re used to, redefine your life, and relearn to do things alone. Traveling is one activity that will help relieve you of those negative thoughts. Here you will learn how to plan Traveling After a Divorce.

It is not always easy, but it is doable, and one way to find healing is by traveling. Traveling is all-inclusive, even for senior divorcees looking for peace of mind as they lead their lives in continuing care retirement communities. In this guide, you’re going to learn how to plan for your first solo trip:


Traveling After a Divorce
  1. Make This Trip About You

The whole purpose of taking this trip is to get away from the mental and physical trauma of the divorce. The chances are that you’re still dwelling on the past, thinking about what you and your ex-partner would have done differently. This experience in your life may have also lowered your self-esteem and self-confidence. This is normal, but the only thing that will hold you back is letting the dark shadow follow you. So, look at this trip as your new journey to reinvention. 

To get rid of all the negative energy surrounding your divorce, you can change your last name back to your maiden name. You’ll need to take the necessary steps depending on where you live. For example, changing your name in California is simple – all you have to do is fill out and file the Name Change Petition form, advertise the particulars of your name change in a qualified newspaper, get the Certified Copy of your court order, change your ID and records, and voilà – you’ll be able to start fresh and enjoy your new and liberated life!

  1. Prioritize Your Safety

While vacationing alone can be exciting, remember that you will be BY YOURSELF. Therefore, you must prioritize your safety to prevent anything from happening to you while you’re out there alone. Make a thorough inquiry of the travel destination, the places you’ll be staying, the mode of transport, and be sure to update close family members and friends of your whereabouts and the time you’ll be away, in case anything happens. Also, to protect yourself from those unexpected incidents that could ruin your vacation, it might be wise to invest in flexible travel insurance, just in case.

  1. Go Out of Your Comfort Zone

Remember that the purpose of this trip is to find yourself, so as you reinforce safety, find fun activities so that you can unwind as much as you can. You probably were a bit nervous about exploring because you had a family, but it’s now easier to try new things since you’re more flexible. So, try out new adventures and foods, get a different taste of entertainment, make new friends and learn something from them. 

If you’re traveling to a new place, ensure that you experience it in a new way and do everything you can differently. In the process, you might also learn a few things about yourself that you never did, and it might also be your way back up to boost your self-esteem and self-confidence levels. Besides that, an activity-filled trip will help shift your mind away from the thoughts of divorce.

  1. Treat Yourself

If you take one thing away from this article, let it be this: this trip is all about you. Besides doing other activities, try to incorporate programs that only involve you. You can choose a resort away from all the noise, like the Canyon Ranch in Arizona. In such a resort, you can also treat yourself to body treatments like relaxing massage to ease all the tension, do some guided meditation sessions, go golfing, and enjoy the breeze from the mountains of Tucson. A countryside experience will most likely give you the refresher that you need. 

It’s easy to get drowned in the negatives of life, especially during a divorce. Of course, the bad feelings don’t go away spontaneously, so if, for some reason, you encounter anything negative during your travels, take a step back and try to remember all the things that have happened in your life. If you have a journal, it could surely help you retrace those good moments of your life. Traveling is one activity that will help relieve you of those negative thoughts, so please give it a try.

About the Author

Roni Davis is a writer, blogger, and legal assistant operating out of the greater Philadelphia area. 

Last Updated on August 8, 2023

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